The Goth subculture is primarily defined as a culture centered around embracing the eerie elements of life: a lifestyle that emphasizes the authentic beauty behind the darkness.
Max Tindle has been involved in the culture for life, describing an interest in the style since early childhood.
“Many years ago, I got very into a doll line called Monster High, it really got me interested in fashion in general,” said Tindle. “When I was nine or ten, I discovered the emo and scene culture, and it’s evolved over time to how I dress more gothic today.”
Tindle says that dressing goth has become an “in” to finding like-minded people and feeling a sense of belonging as an artist.
“It has been the most welcoming community I have ever been in, and the most expressive. As an artist, it is very freeing to express myself through dress, and makeup,” they said.
Contrary to popular belief, goth isn’t just about dressing the part. In the world of Goth, staying true to one’s self is the most important aspect of the community.
Janae Frazier says she identifies herself as a member of multiple different alternative groups, not limiting herself to goth. Frazier is embracing her unique style which has boosted her confidence and willingness to be seen in the world.
“I feel like it’s influenced me more to just be who I am,” said Frazier. “I’m a black woman with blue hair and blue eyebrows, I look fucking goofy. Diving into that instead of hiding that bit of myself, it gives me a lot more confidence to actually put myself out there and to do the crazy and wacky things.”
Frazier says that what people often get wrong about those who indulge in a style that differs from common fashion,such as goth, is coming with assumptions about who that person is, their attitude, and their personality. She believes these assumptions can be harmful.
“I’ve had a lot of people approach me and they say they didn’t expect me to be so chill. I mean,what would I be?”
Frazier added, “Which is crazy, because again, I have blue hair and blue eyebrows, you think I’m going to judge you? I don’t fit the norm’, why would I be judgmental? It’s the most mind-boggling thing.”
There are a few hot-spot venues for those that enjoy a darker aesthetic to find others. Berserk is a Spokane bar that serves as a community hub for the local art and music scene, a popular spot for 21+ goths looking to sit in a moody, yet lively atmosphere that fits their grim aesthetic.
According to self-described elder goth Wyatt Donovan, Berserk has been his spot to find other spooky and enticing friends.
“I’ve met my closest friends who were able to come here, it’s my favorite little spot,” said Donovan. “I see people of all backgrounds hanging out.”
Berserk is a sought-after spot for Spokane’s gothic groups and local music lovers. Donovan also claims there is value in connecting with people from all different backgrounds, something he seeks out when he hits the town.
“It’s hard to watch people like me, those of us who’ve been in the scene for a long time, it’s hard to see some people my age shun the youth,” Donovan said. “There’s value in engaging with newcomers.”
Donovan encourages youth that are interested in a darker aesthetic to know that regardless of an outsider’s opinion, being true goth requires nothing more than bringing their truest selves to the table.
“There’s always gonna be people that will have a smart comment but take some pride in being different. You’re going against the grain of what’s expected of you because of what external pressure decides what’s polite and the right way to exist. Be proud of the fact that you’re doing it because you want to.”
